14 Feb 2013 15 Comments
Money Rules
I have always been a huge fan of Gail Vaz-Oxlade, and enjoy her no-nonsense approach to money management on her show, Till Debt Do Us Part. Her latest book, Money Rules, just came out (yeah, a book review that is not over a year old!) and she is currently on her book tour.
The book is essentially comprised of 261 her Money Rules. All the basics are covered, like budgeting, investing, and real estate, with other topics thrown in, such as credit, insurance and taxes. There’s tons of information to go through, but it is still an easy read as the rules are broken up into chunks. With 261 rules, I’m sure everyone can learn a little something from this book!
I’m going to go through and list my 10 favourite rules that I found in the book. They’re not necessarily the best 10 rules of the book, just the 10 rules that resonated the most with me. It was SO HARD to narrow it down to just 10 though; if you were to read it, I think you’ll find 10 of your own favourite rules. At least 10!
1. Renting is NOT a waste of money.
I loved this rule. Probably why I continued reading the book! j/k.
It is such the societal norm to pressure people into buying a property, even when you don’t have a clue of their financial situation. Without this information, it would be impossible to determine whether or not it makes financial sense for them to own. But who cares whether or not the numbers make sense, right? As renters in Calgary, we get a lot of crap from people about throwing money away on rent, but no one will sit down and go through the numbers with me. It is much better to be renting right now; I have ran the numbers to prove it to myself.
2. Don’t Marry a Money Moron
Pretty self explanatory.
3. Don’t tithe if you owe money.
This reminded me of some clients I worked with. It was always a sore point during the process as I didn’t believe that they should be doing it if they owe money. Technically, it is not THEIR money they are giving away because, if they’re living on credit, they don’t have the money in the first place! Seemed hypocritical to me, but, of course, we didn’t see eye to eye on this issue.
4. More won’t make you happier.
You will eventually hit a point in your life when another car, another house, or another new toy just won’t make you happy anymore. I think our society, in general, with the mass amount of toys and gadgets we own compared to previous generations, will eventually realize that all this stuff isn’t making us any happier.
5. Never travel without private medical insurance.
This is always a debate with myself whenever I travel. When I leave Canada I usually have some insurance, but the ones where I go back and forward on weekend trips to other provinces? Friends tease me about being paranoid. It’s only a couple days, and I am hardly an adrenaline junkie, so I should be fine, right?
At the end of the day, the money is worth the piece of mind for me. I think I take healthcare for granted living in Canada. Fortunately, I have never had to make a claim on any of my insurance policies either. Now, whether or not to get trip cancellation insurance…
6. Your situation is unique.
Everyone is unique. Everyone has their own financial difficulties and struggles they have to deal with. But “no situation is special enough to justify ignoring the rules of sound money management.” I don’t care if you suffered a financial setback in the past, you are still responsible for how you spend your money now! Stop using something that happened 20 years ago as an excuse for your bad habits now!
7. Lose your bad habits.
This one hit close to home. I usually think I am pretty good with my money, and I don’t have any bad habits, right? I don’t smoke. I seldom drink. But eating out, ah, that one hit close to home. I ate out 12 times in January, and it is a pretty big expenditure for us. Definitely something we have to work on this year; always something new to learn or work on!
8. Stuff accumulates. Use it up!
Chapsticks. I had tons of them. They’re only a couple bucks and I always liked the fruit-smelling ones. And the cute-shaped ones. And I NEED the ones with SPF in it, right? So I promised myself last year that I WILL NOT buy another one until I use all the other ones up. I STILL haven’t finished all of them yet. Its a slow and painful process, but the money I am saving on it adds up. It could be something different for you. Jackets? Socks? Shoes? Lotions?
9. Watch your food costs.
This is something we have been consciously working on for the past 6 months. It is definitely eye opening once you track everything you buy, as it is easier to determine whether or not your diet is going to help or hinder your waistline.
We’re at about $200 for the month which we’re pretty happy with, but I know some can spend over $400 a month for 2 people. Do what works for you, but just make sure you know where your money is going!
10. Buy the Index.
What? Me plug ETFs? Never!
There are lots of investment choices out there, and it can get overwhelming! So keep it simple by buying the index through ETFs (Exchange Traded Funds). Not many fund managers out there can consistently beat the market year over year, so just buy the index and you’ll do better than 75% of the mutual funds out there. I find that the % varies from resource to resource, but the fundamental idea doesn’t change.
Like I said, it was HARD to narrow it down to just 10. There are tons of topics I haven’t even touched, like RESPs, leveraging, and company pension plans. Great resource book for those who are looking for someone to explain concepts to them.
As always, check out Money Rules by Gail Vaz-Oxlade from your local library or purchase it here… well, I used to have an Amazon link but it is crapping out on me at the moment and I haven’t been able to figure it out yet.
Thanks for reading!
Feb 14, 2013 @ 10:57:07
All good points, I’m tempted to buy the book so I can see the rest of them. I especially like point #6. Everyone is unique and not every “Set PF Rule” works for everybody. I think the Snowball vs Avalanche debt reduction techniques are a classic case in point of that. Budgeting is another item that hard fast rules won’t work for everyone, different personalities will adapt better to different busget techniques. I speak to this towards the end of this article I recently posted: http://wisedollar.org/creating-a-budget-how-to-budget/
Feb 15, 2013 @ 09:05:06
Definitely. As long as you are taking responsibility for your actions and taking the steps towards paying off your debt and/or saving for big purchases, I think there are lots of ways to get to the end goal.
Feb 14, 2013 @ 11:11:04
Sounds like a pretty interesting book I might have to check this one out. I totally agree with more will not make you happier. I use to believe in this idea and then I looked at how much it was costing me over time and the headaches owning these things cost me so I sold them.
Feb 15, 2013 @ 09:06:24
Hey Chris,
The cost of replacing things sucks! You can take care of your electronics (for example), but they will die eventually, so having to anticipate that and replace it is troublesome. Just have to decide whether or not you really need them in the first place.
Thanks for dropping by.
Feb 14, 2013 @ 11:24:18
Great review,
I haven’t read this one yet although I’ve read all of Gail’s other books. Pretty much it’s all stuff we should already know as adults, but many don’t or choose not to until it’s too late. I look forward to checking this book out, just need to snag a copy from the library first.
Feb 15, 2013 @ 09:07:12
Hey Mr. CBB,
Put it on hold at the library; takes 2 minutes!
It is an easy book to keep on your nightstand and read a couple rules whenever you get a chance.
Feb 14, 2013 @ 14:57:33
Sounds like some great insights in the book! I hope you don’t mind that I share a few thoughts on tithing…
In religious circles, the concept of tithing involves giving a certain percentage/share (usually 10%) of your income or assets to support your church and the less fortunate. Basically, tithes are meant to be paid from a portion of your income/assets. Being a tither myself, I admire your friends’ compassion/conviction to give to their churches (or the less fortunate) even though they might not have much themselves. However, borrowed money is not income and I echo yours/Gail’s sentiment that loan money is not yours to give. That being said, I think there is a certain element of faith in giving and that not all financial decisions have to be practical ones… I knew a hungry/homeless person who gave her last bowl of soup to someone else. Not a very practical thing to do, but I thought it was incredibly kind, inspiring, and I’m sure rewarding for her in non-material ways. If we all waiting until we had zero debt, the desperate and most needy would never be provided for. Life is certainly about more than self-preservation and making sure your all your material losses are offset by material gains.
I guess to sum up my thoughts, I think it’s ok if you can’t tithe to the church or contribute to charity while you are getting your life and budget in order. There are other ways to give eg. volunteering, and maybe in the short-term you’re better off being on the “receiving” rather than “giving” end of tithing. But I think contributing to society and giving to others is pretty important for the good of humanity, not to mention, good for your own heart and soul. So, if you regularly can’t afford to even squeeze out a dollar to give to the needy, I think you would be wise to find out why you are in chronically in debt and feeling so financially stretched all the time. Even if you are a religious person, God still expects you to be a good and responsible steward of the money/possessions He blesses you with. Unfortunately, many people who are in serious debt aren’t in serious debt out of necessity, but because of lifestyle choices.
Anyway, I think I agree with you. Just wanted to elaborate on this topic a little more =)
Feb 15, 2013 @ 09:13:29
Hey Jella,
Great insight! I definitely respect and admire tithing and/or volunteering, but I think it is about choices. If you are buying new clothes and vacations on credit cards and carrying a balance, I don’t think you should be tithing. Well, I don’t think you should be making ANY purchases on your credit card if you have debt, but that’s my opinion.
Volunteer with your time and realize that you can’t have everything all at once. I think it is your responsibility to get your financial house in order, and not make lifestyle choices beyond your means.
Thanks for dropping by!
Feb 14, 2013 @ 20:58:05
She’s a great speaker and puts money matters into words that regular folks can understand. I think she was in Alberta earlier this year giving a speech or something. I wanted to go check it out but it’s too far away. Nice review. This book is on my wish list for sure
Feb 15, 2013 @ 09:14:51
Hey Liquid,
She is lovely, isn’t she?
I like how she is tough, but it is for your own good.
Put it on hold at the library for sure. Worth taking a quick peek through it.
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Feb 15, 2013 @ 23:26:53
She makes some good, common sense points. I haven’t read this book yet, but I’ll try to pick it up at the library!
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Feb 27, 2013 @ 01:38:55
Get a yearly coverage for travel insurance that will also cover other provinces… usually worth it if you do 2-3 trips to the states. Believe me, there are times when your provincial care does not cover other province’s health care costs, like an ambulance trip you couldn’t turn down cuz you passed out! That cost a thousand. Now I am definitely covered, at least through one thing or another like a spousal extended health care plan.